1. What is your EQ?
What is the most important skill a child develops in preschool that helps them best excel
academically in kindergarten?
2. What is your third answer? (In complete thesis statement format)
Another important skill a child develops in preschool that is a predictor of success in school are
emotional skills. While it may not be something that is often talked about I believe that now in the
new age that we are in children are already influenced by those around them, so it is only logical
that children learn to control their emotions at an early age.
3. List three reasons your answer is true with a real-world application for each.
o It helps a child's ability to control their outbursts
- I've noticed at my mentorship that the kids who struggle with their emotions, for example
keeping their anger in check when someone has taken something from them affects the way
they complete their school work because they are so focused on that emotion they don't focus
or pay attention to anything else.
o Good emotional skills help children become more emotionally sophisticated and confident
-"
My 10-year-old son recently shared a secret with me. He had used some of his allowance to
buy Pokemon trading cards, which he called "way, way expensive." He didn't even like the
cards, he admitted to me. But trading them was a way for him to build and keep some
friendships in school with his classmates who collected the cards. His willingness to use his
growing social sophistication and empathy to work on friendships shows how important
emotional skills are for children in elementary school."-
Lawrence Kutner, Ph.D.
o Increases social competence
- As I mentioned previously a child's ability to be able to control their emotions affects the way
they interact with those around them. If a child is happy they are more likely to share their
ideas, thoughts, or feelings with people opposed to a child who may be more sheltered
will have a harder time expressing themselves which may affect their ability to communicate
and perform in school.
4. What printed source supports your answer?
Foxman, Paul. "Chapter 1/What Is Anxiety?" The Worried Child: Recognizing Anxiety in Children
and Helping Them Heal. Alameda, CA: Hunter House, 2004. 8-21. Print.
o This book/chapter got me thinking about how emotions play a role in how a child takes in their
environment and how they show their feelings. It talks about anxiety, what it is and how it
affects children emotionally, mentally, and academically.
5. Tie this together with a concluding thought.
Every child is unique. Some children are cheerful and adaptable while others are moody and easily
distressed. Emotion and behavior are based on the child’s temperament and developmental stage.
Which is why they must develop good emotional skills early on to carry into the future.